When was the last time you lied to someone? Ako?uhm...as far as I can remember nagsinungaling ako dun sa kausap ko sa phone. This person called sa haus tpos...para madali ito na lang:

krrrrrrrnnnnrggggggg....krrrrrrrrrnnnngggg

Lani:hello?

Caller:Hello.pde po bang makausap si lani?

Lani:Sino to?

Caller:Si *** po

Lani:Ah.sandali lang ah...

(tinakpan ang phone...)
after ilang seconds....

Lani:ay...tulog pa siya eh...

Caller:Ah ganun po ba?cge po.

Note:Ginawa ko yun kasi ayaw ko talagang makipagusap tpos...advantage din kasi magkakaboses kami ng ate ko tska pamangkin ko sa phone(pero mas maganda yung boses ko pati na rin ako noh...hehe)

So...naalala ko tuloy yung topic sa OPRAH...yung pathological liar...Actually, I have no idea na may ganun pala.Ang akala ko kasi liar lang. Ang nasa baba ay info tungkol sa pathological liar. Malay mo ganun ka na pala...next time na lang yung cure...Ang importante ay malaman nyo ito kasi mahirap na d b?Bawal ang magkasakit...

from: http://www.concernedcounseling.com/Radio/articles/pathological_liars.htm

There is a reason why you are asked in court to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. It is because most of the time that is not what people do. Everyone lies sometime. There are many reasons to lie. Sometimes it is to not hurt someone's feelings. Sometimes a lie is for our own advantage. Some people lie in conducting business and in their personal lives. Most adults are aware of when they lie.

Young children sometimes have problems telling fantasy from reality. When a 3-year-old insists that he flew to Mars this morning, he may not be lying on purpose. He may not even be aware that it is a lie. Children with good imaginations often take longer to learn what a lie really is. It is important to work with children to teach them about fantasy and reality, instead of punishing them for these kinds of beliefs.

A pathological liar believes in the lies, at least at the time that she or he is talking. Their stories tend to be very dramatic. They often portray the person as being smarter, braver, more attractive, or more interesting than she or he really is. Sometimes people begin to catch onto pathological liars because of obvious flaws in the stories. A fairly young man will describe his heroics in the Vietnam war. A homely woman will talk about all the men who fell instantly in love with her. Sometimes the flaws may be more subtle and it may take a knowledgeable person to find them. Often it happens that a pathological liar will be caught out at a party by someone who really was a pilot, really lived in Africa, or really was a fashion model.

Suspect a pathological liar if:

the stories seem too dramatic or unrealistic

the lies seem to serve no purpose except to impress people or

the lies can easily be shown up

Sometimes pathological lying appears to be related to physical causes, such as problems in the brain. Other times they appear to be related to low self-esteem. In any case, good diagnosis and treatment is needed. Contact your healthcare provider for assistance and referrals if needed.

"Brighter Than Sunshine"
by Aqualung

I never understood before
I never knew what love was for
My heart was broke, my head was sore
What a feeling

Tied up in ancient history
I didnt believe in destiny
I look up you're standing next to me
What a feeling

What a feeling in my soul
Love burns brighter than sunshine
Brighter than sunshine
Let the rain fall, i don't care
I'm yours and suddenly you're mine
Suddenly you're mine
And it's brighter than sunshine

I never saw it happening
I'd given up and given in
I just couldn't take the hurt again
What a feeling

I didn't have the strength to fight
Suddenly you seemed so right
Me and you
What a feeling

What a feeling in my soul
Love burns brighter than sunshine
It's brighter than sunshine
Let the rain fall, I don't care
I'm yours and suddenly you're mine
Suddenly you're mine

It's brighter than the sun
It's brighter than the sun
It's brighter than the sun, sun, shine.

Love will remain a mystery
But give me your hand and you will see
Your heart is keeping time with me

What a feeling in my soul
Love burns brighter than sunshine
It's brighter than sunshine
Let the rain fall, I don't care
I'm yours and suddenly you're mine
Suddenly you're mine

I got a feeling in my soul ... [repeat chorus to end]

Ang tipo kong lalaki…maginoo pero medyo…

Normal lang naman ang nagkaka-crush. I had my first crush when I was in kinder or grade one. I’m not so sure. Uso pa nga yung autograph book noon eh. Questions such as Who is your crush? Describe your crush. ang common na tanong. When I was in grade two or three, I had conversation with my ka-service(school jeep) about my ideal guy. Naalala ko tuloy bigla yung mga characteristics na ibinigay ko noon. It’s kinda different from the standards /characteristics that I have right now. Tingnan ninyo yung difference. Compare it! I divided it into categories Elementary, High School and College.

Elementary: Siyempre, ang babaw pa ng standards ko noon kasi bata pa ako eh!

Maputi ang batok, singkit ang mata, good-looking, matalino, mabait, makinis ang balat(ayoko yung may galis!), may poise(ayoko yung tumutulo yung uhog o may kulangot),mayaman,maganda mag-smile, sikat

High School: Medyo nag-improve..watchatink?

Singkit ang mata, matalino, mabait, may sense of humor(lagi akong pinapatawa), liked-by all(hindi maangas o may maraming kaaway ), thoughtful, gentleman,malambing, mahilig sa music(kumakanta, lalo na kapag marunong mag-gitara), kahit cute lang(I’m not after the looks…tsk…tsk),simple

College:

mabait, may sense of humor, thoughtful, malambing, gentleman, liked-by-all pa rin, cute, matalino(hindi naman kailangan scholar basta matalino),simple


So…wala lang. Siyempre, ngayong college nagmature na ako(talaga lang ha). Hindi na rin mala-prince charming ang gusto ko pero kung meron ba at posible eh d go for it. Why not? Hehe…dapat may kasunod pa kaya lang crush nga lang pala ito noh…Sige na nga…pagdating naman sa love…ito…

-Honest
-Knows me well kasi I’m the type of person na hindi agad nag-oopen tungkol sa nararamdaman…makikita mo na lang akong tahimik pero ang totoo galit na ako nun o kaya natatae…yuck!
-Caring..yung tipong tinatanong kung okay lang ba ako kapag tahimik na ako o kaya kung may problema ba ako o ano ba yung kailangan ko…haaaaaaaayyyyy
-Nakikipagdebate sa akin…not afraid to criticize me and tell my mistakes in a nice way naman ha
-Lagi akong pinapatawa
-Thoughtful
-Mahilig sa Music

haaaayyy…wish ko lang! Sana lang magkatotoo lahat yan noh…wala lang yan yung mga tipo ko…pero siyempre sana mukhang tao d b? Kinikilig tuloy ako…hehe

I thought of this topic kasi ilang days na lang ay Valentine's Day na. So para cute, ibblog ko na rin ito. By the way, ang mga bagay nay an ay opinion ko lang kaya sana walang mapipikon. Sana makatulong ito sa inyo kahit papaano.

Status 1: Single

Category 1: Girl na wala pang nanliligaw since birth o wala lang talaga
If you know that you are ready for a relationship pero wala pa talagang nanliligaw ever since, I suggest that you these things or just kill yourself(joke!):

1. Evaluate yourself- tingnan mo kung ano ang abnormal sa iyo. I think it would be a turn off kung may B.O. ang isang girl o mahaba ang buhok nya sa kili-kili.Right?
2. Ask your friends specially guy friends
3. Assess yourself kung gusto mo nga ba talaga ng guys o baka you're one of them

But, I think it would be advisable to leave the thought of having a relationship. I believe na there is someone out there for you. It is not the right time to have one. Dadating na lang ang person na yun when you least expect it. He will come in God's time.

Sa darating na Valentine's day, go out with your friends or just have some fun. This will take your mind off the situation. Huwag mo masyadong isipin na just because you don't have a boyfriend eh end of the world na. Kill yourself na lang kasi.

Category 2: Girl na may manliligaw
Well, I think na hindi mo kailangang sagutin yung manliligaw mo sa Valentine's day pero kung sa tingin mo love mo na siya at ready ka na eh d go for it! Give your best to keep your relationship Kung may nanliligaw sa iyo at hindi mo gusto, sabihin mo na agad. Huwag na huwag mo siyang paasahin! Bad yun! Huwag mo naman sasagutin ang isang guy dahil mayaman siya, may kotse o good-looking. Aside from the fact na masasaktan mo siya, hindi ka rin magiging happy. Believe me. Bato-bato sa langit…ang tamaan…sapul!

Category 3: Guy na hindi pa nagkaka-girlfriend (hindi pa nanliligaw since birth o hindi lang talaga nanliligaw)
If you fall under this category, you must be gay. Joke lang! Iba naman ang case ninyong mga gays a este guys pala kasi sa inyo manggagaling ang first move eh. You must have some reasons kung bakit hindi ka pa nanliligaw. I think isa sa mga ito yun:

1. hindi ka pa ready kasi…Busy ka pa sa mga bagay-bagay tulad ng games, sports etc.
2. hindi ka pa ready kasi…You have some family matters to attend to
3. Napakalaki mong torpe
4. Torpe ka…T-O-R-P-E
5. You haven't met the woman of your dreams(gusto mo kasi first and last)
6. Hindi ka marunong manligaw
7. Tama ako! Gay ka nga!

Kung may gusto ka namang girl at hindi ka pa ready manligaw, aba eh problema mo na yun! Anyway, I think it's up to you naman eh. But, I suggest na you make her feel special this Valentine's day. Magparamdam ka naman kasi baka maagaw pa yan!Hehehe! Nakakainis din kasi yung mga guys that falls under this category. I have my reasons. Hay naku!

Category 4: Guy na hindi pa nagkaka-girlfriend (nanliligaw pero…busted!)
Sa mga nasa category na ito, Caramba! Huwag kayong maging desperado. Maybe you just have to do adjust something or a lot sa sarili mo pwede sa ugali, sa appearance o kaya lifestyle. Don't be in a hurry kasi baka naman dahil sa peer pressure kaya gusto mo ng magka-girlfriend. Kung gusto mo talaga siya, be there for her. Huwag mo siyang i-pressure, give her time. Kung hindi ka naman talaga nya gusto, respect her decision. Don't lose hope because of this. Meron girl na para talaga sa iyo. Your soulmate! Sa Valentine's day, try to do something for yourself naman. Don't just go around looking for a girlfriend. Invest on something. Malay mo…dahil sa iyong sa success ay may ma-attract sa ito na girl.

Category 5: Girl or Boy na heartbroken kaya galit sa mundo…
Ito na yung mga single ulit. Sila yung mga heartbroken at hindi pa nakaka-move on. They intended not to engage into a relationship. So, I suggest na magpakamatay na lang kayo. In english, kill yourself! I suggest you do these things para naman maka-move-on na kayo:

1. Avoid listening to love songs…maiiyak lang kayo
2. Make yourself busy. Cook. Watch a movie. In this way, you will not end up reminiscing your moments together. Maiiyak ka lang.
3. Go out with your friends.
4. Kulamin nyo na para magtanda
5. Always put into mind na hindi lang siya ang tao sa mundo. Hindi siya worth it. Pagsubok lang yan sa iyo.

Category 6 Girl o Boy na may ka- M.U.
Mahirap ang category na ito kasi everything is hard to determine. You have no idea where to stand. Hindi mo alam kung may karapatan kang magselos o wala. Malapit na ba maging kayo o friends lang. Mahirap as in. It would be advisable to have a talk dun sa ka-M.U mo at i-verify ang inyong situation. By doing this, though it is hard, you will lessen the risk of being hurt and being misunderstood.

Status 2: Taken

Category 1: Girl o Boy na happy pa
Well, kung happy na kayo…eh ano pang problema? Wala na d b? All you have to do is to maintain your good relationship. How?
1. Good communication
2. Avoid being too intimate(physically)
3. Humor
4. Be yourself
5. Dapat give and take yan..mutualism!

Category 2: Girl o Boy na hindi na happy
Kung hindi na kayo happy sa relationship, determine the cause. Fix the problem. Hindi naman kailangang maghiwalay agad eh. Gve your best na ma-solve yung problem. Malay mo trial lang ito sa inyo.Treat him/her this Valentine's day. Maybe this would help in repairing your relationship. Kung sa tingin mo ay wala na talaga, have a proper goodbye. Inappropriate yung aalis ka na lang o kaya naman nag-aaway kayo. It would be better if you will leave as friends. Right?

I think marami pang category akong namiss pero I hope nakatulong kahit papaano yung mga pinagsasabi ko. Saang category ka? Pagdating sa L-O-V-E , always remember that the right person will come to you in the time that God wants him to.